Reading is precious – which is why I’ve been giving away my books

I’m donating my books to individuals who can most profit from them. Why preserve a novel that would delight another person?

I used to have, or moderately hoard, numerous books. Nonetheless do, I believe, a minimum of by the requirements of the typical dwelling, however I’m doing my greatest to get rid. Within the final couple of years I've given away lots of. If the considered this fills you with horror, then possibly look away from this subsequent half, the place I confess that typically I even put them within the recycling. Solely the actually objectionable ones, that I really feel I'm saving the reader from by taking them out of circulation.

The massive e-book purge started once I determined to undergo the cabinets and discard any e-book I used to be vaguely embarrassed to have in the home, for causes of high quality, subject material, politics or creator (have a look at your cabinets and also you in all probability have your personal equivalents). Since then, I’ve been jettisoning them each few months with no regrets. Solely twice have I wanted to look one thing up in a e-book I’ve thrown away, and rebought an affordable secondhand copy.

Some individuals deal with books like totemic, magical objects. I do know, I used to be one. About 10 years in the past, my (divorced) dad and mom moved home at across the similar time, and gifted me quite a lot of books about which they presumed I'd really feel sentimental, however which grew to become a form of albatross in my relationship. Once I moved in with my husband, he had only a few books, not as a result of he's not a reader, however as a result of he grew up in a Buddhist family, prefers an uncluttered setting and locations little worth on bodily objects. As soon as he has learn a e-book, he merely donates it or offers it away, and holds on solely to those he's certain he'll reread. Excessive book-fetishists might argue I ought to depart him, however why ought to he be pressured to reside any longer with my hoarding?

I used to be desirous about him the opposite day once I noticed an web dialogue a couple of man who instructed a bookshop worker that he solely owns one e-book at a time, shopping for a brand new one when he has learn the final one and removed it. “The horror! How might he? I merely couldn’t!” individuals wrote, main me to replicate but once more on that modern tendency to deal with having books as a form of identification.

This phenomenon is greatest illustrated by a poster that for some time was following me across the web in advert type, underneath the misapprehension that as a result of I really like cats and browse books – and, certainly, have written a e-book a couple of cat – it had my style in inside decor pinned down. The poster exhibits a cat and bears the slogan: “THAT’S WHAT I DO, I READ BOOKS, I DRINK TEA AND I KNOW THINGS.”

Apologies in the event you personal this poster, however to me it encapsulates all the pieces that's smug and center class in regards to the cult of e-book possession. I don’t imply studying – offered you’re fortunate sufficient to nonetheless have an area library, that could be a pastime that's accessible to virtually everybody. No, I particularly imply having numerous books and boasting about it, treating having numerous books as a stand-in in your character, or believing that merely proudly owning numerous books makes one “know issues”.

I perceive that sure books can really feel very important and valuable. I grew up in a household the place there have been numerous books on the cabinets, although we couldn’t all the time afford new ones. I’ve by no means forgotten the privilege of that, nor of the place I’m in now, the place I'm typically despatched books freed from cost. Maybe that’s why I discover the concept of hoarding them moderately unhappy – there’s even a Japanese phrase, tsundoku, for permitting books to pile up unread. As an alternative, I select to donate mine to locations the place there are individuals who can most profit from them, or depart them on the wall outdoors my home, the place they all the time disappear.

I discovered my very own copy of George Eliot’s Middlemarch by comparable means. Inside, somebody had written “READ ME!”, and it turned out to be the impetus I wanted to sort out that nice novel. Why preserve it on my cabinets once I’m completed, when another person might enjoyment of it as I did? My husband would say I’m nonetheless in restoration, and I definitely have extra to eliminate, however frankly, I can’t wait.

Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett is a Guardian columnist and creator

The headline on this text was amended on 24 January 2023 to put higher emphasis on the column’s central argument

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