Dining across the divide: ‘I was expecting a vegan wearing a European Union hat - one of those’


Jody, 44, Hastings

Jody

Occupation DJ

Voting report Primarily Labour; after the Iraq conflict, Lib Dem; then again to Labour beneath Corbyn. Now Jody is contemplating George Galloway’s Employees Social gathering of Britain. He voted depart within the EU referendum, however is pro-immigration

Amuse bouche Jody is expounded to David Attenborough. He must discover his household tree to seek out out precisely how, however his grandma’s maiden identify was Attenborough


Michael, 43, Hastings

Michael

Occupation NHS supervisor

Voting reportA combination of Labour, Lib Dem and Inexperienced in nationwide and native elections. Michael voted stay within the EU referendum

Amuse bouche An elephant as soon as barged into his mum’s backyard. There have been elephant rides happening within the native park, the elephant bought free and took out a fence panel


For starters

JodyHe appeared all proper. Intelligent chap. I used to be anticipating to get a “soy boy”. You realize, somebody who drinks loads of soya milk, vegan, Ukrainian T-shirt on, European Union hat, a kind of.

Michael I’m undecided what he’s instructed you, however I bought hammered so the recall could be a bit sluggish. We bought on fairly properly, I believe. The meals was scrumptious.

Michael (left) and Jody


The massive beef

JodyWe disagreed about optimistic discrimination. Optimistic discrimination continues to be discrimination.

Michael We agreed on the shortage of equity, the shortage of a degree enjoying discipline. However I believe, whether or not it’s on race or gender or sexual orientation or some other attribute you select to call, optimistic discrimination to deal with that imbalance isn't solely justifiable however a fascinating factor.

JodyI got here to the conclusion that if it’s executed for sophistication, giving a leg as much as poor individuals, then I’m professional. However in relation to racial or sexual or any of those different kinds of arbitrary division, it will get a bit skewed. In the event you take black children and white children within the interior metropolis, they’re each going to get the identical drawback – it’s not the color of their pores and skin, it’s the very fact they’re each poor.

Michael He mentioned he’s color blind, that he doesn’t care if somebody’s a person or a lady – he’ll deal with all of them equally, and if everybody did that it could be high quality. I've gone by means of a course of, from just about believing the identical factor to considering that, as a result of we’re in such a tough place, for those who’re any form of minority there’s a must actively do one thing good to redress that steadiness. Whether or not it’s issues similar to, in an interview course of, eradicating anyone’s identify or instructional historical past to take out as many indicators of unconscious bias as doable, then that’s a worthwhile factor to do.

Michael (left) and Jody


Sharing plate

Jody I’m all totally free motion. I like the thought of genetic mixing, a bit extra of a wholesome gene pool.

Michael I don’t consider within the notion of a state, I don’t consider in borders. I believe these items are fully synthetic.

Michael (left) and Jody


For afters

Jody There have been one thing like 400,000 civilian deaths within the “conflict on terror” – Afghanistan, Iraq and different wars. Ukraine has had about 4,000 civilian casualties. So what the west has executed is a lot worse than what Putin’s doing proper now – however whereas Putin is a pariah, worse than Hitler, Tony Blair is roaming the Earth. And the refugee factor, everybody’s like: ship these Syrians to Rwanda, however yeah we’ll convey a Ukrainian into the home. It’s dripping with hypocrisy.

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Michael I used to be considering perhaps he’s pro-Russia, however his feeling was not that we shouldn’t be sad about Russia’s actions, extra that it was hypocritical to make a fuss about Ukraine when there’s a lot much less point out of Yemen, for instance. Loads of the place we had divergence was round this actual scepticism he’s bought about what he reads within the media. I don’t suppose Ukraine has been overreported, extra that different issues are underreported.

Michael (left) and Jody


Takeaway

Jody It’s bizarre if you meet a stranger, sitting down, each placing the hassle in – you attempt to discover frequent floor. On-line, you’d be at one another’s throats.

Michael It was fascinating to see how completely different our worldviews had been, however that ultimately led us to a variety of comparable conclusions. It made me mirror on the significance of understanding individuals’s motivations for saying and doing issues, quite than reacting on a superficial degree to what they are saying and do.

Michael (left) and Jody

Further reporting: Naomi Larsson

Jody and Michael ate at The First In Final Out in Hastings, East Sussex

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