13 Causes Why star Tommy Dorfman has introduced she’s engaged to a lady, saying: ‘I’ve met the particular person I’m going to spend the remainder of my life with.’
In February this 12 months, it was revealed that the actress and her husband, Peter Zurkuhlen, had break up after 5 years of marriage.
Tommy, who got here out as trans in July 2021, defined in an announcement that that they had determined to ‘redefine our relationship as mates’, explaining that transitioning for her ‘has been liberating and clarifying’.
Whereas talking on Rachel Bilson’s podcast Broad Concepts, which she hosts together with her finest pal Olivia Allen, Tommy defined that she realised that she was interested by girls ‘in a means that I hadn’t been conscious of since highschool’, and so ‘had this unresolved, unexplored factor’.
‘I used to be like, “That is the 12 months that I’m gonna go on some dates with women and really feel that out once more, and never really feel ashamed about it,”’ she stated.
Emphasising how she feels in her relationship, she stated: ‘It’s secure. Additionally not secure and like being in love is so scary. So uncomfortable, so painful. All of the common emotions of being in love which can be most likely the identical.’
Tommy admitted that she was ‘scared’ about admitting that she was drawn to girls due to the ‘secure relationships’ she has with girls in her life.
‘As a result of they considered me as a homosexual man, they had been like, “Oh, such as you’re the most secure particular person on this planet.” After which all of a sudden, I transition and I turn out to be slightly bit extra threatening, in my head,’ she stated.
Nevertheless, the folks she was ‘essentially the most frightened about cared the least’, she recalled.
Tommy shared that her fiancée – who she shunned naming – is the primary lady she’s been with ‘in a really very long time’, describing the expertise as ‘very affirming’.
She additionally revealed that her companion helped her administer oestrogen photographs as a part of her transition, even doing so over video chat when she was away.
‘My fiancée, she knew how, so she did it for me the primary time,’ Tommy shared.
‘Then she was out of city and we FaceTimed and he or she walked me by it.’
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