Final week, we met a lady who discovered herself in a throuple along with her boyfriend and the girl he was dishonest on her with.
This week’s query comes from a lady whose steamy fling ended with a shock being pregnant. The daddy has rejected her, so what ought to she do subsequent?
It’s a troublesome one. Let’s see what recommendation Laura has….
The issue:
I met him on-line and we chatted for a couple of weeks earlier than agreeing to fulfill. Our first date was so comfy, we talked for hours, and it felt like we’d identified one another for ages.
What the consultants say
I’m so sorry you end up on this scenario however no less than you now know that he's not the form of man you possibly can depend on, who will love you as you deserve.
That stated, I've additionally heard this drawback from the opposite aspect, and I do know that when a man is offered with an unplanned being pregnant it may be a distressing time for him too.
However you're each adults who know that intercourse could make infants, and if you happen to determine to go forward with this being pregnant, he'll nonetheless be legally liable to assist preserve his little one, whether or not he needs to be concerned or not.
A relationship based mostly on intercourse will be superb, however it's simply that. You speak of ‘the person of your desires’ and being ‘in love’, but it surely sounds as if you didn’t actually know him.
So now simply consider your self and your personal future.
By deciding to go forward and have the child, you virtually actually must plan for being a single dad or mum. Are you emotionally prepared and mature sufficient to take that on? Do you could have the love and assist of household and buddies?
Please don’t proceed with this being pregnant since you hope he’ll wish to be concerned as soon as the child is born. His response thus far has been chilly and unfeeling, and he's unlikely to alter.
Speak over your choices with the British Being pregnant Advisory Service, earlier than you determine what’s greatest for you.
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